Slang meaning
What does ILYT mean?
ILYT stands for “I love you too.” It is the reply someone sends right after being told “I love you” or “ily”, and it can be romantic, family or between close friends.
Updated 6 October 2026
ILYT means “I love you too”: a quick reply to someone who has just said they love you.
What ILYT means
I love you too (a reply)
The only common sense. It answers a message such as “ily” or “love you”, so it almost never starts a conversation. Because it is a reply by definition, it carries the same weight as the message it answers.
How people use it on Instagram and Facebook
DMs
Typed straight after “ily” or “ilysm”, often with a heart. Partners, relatives and close friends use it. If the other person wrote the full words, replying with the full words feels warmer.
Story replies
When someone replies to your Story with a heart or “ily”, ILYT is a short acknowledgment that keeps the thread going without needing a longer message.
Comments
Less common. A public “ilyt” under a friend’s birthday post or a family photo works as a quick public love back, often with an emoji.
ILYT in real conversations
- Direct messagegood luck tomorrow!! ilyilyt, thank you 🥹
- Story replyilysm for this ❤️ilyt!!
- Instagram commenthappy birthday mum, ilyilyt my darling
- Direct messageily bestieilyt 💛
How to reply to ILYT
Questions people ask
Does ILYT mean the same as “I love you”?
It means “I love you too”, so it returns the feeling. It does not start the exchange. If you want to say it first, ILY is the starting form and ILYT is the answer.
What is the difference between ILYT and ILYSM?
ILYSM means “I love you so much” and is a strong first statement. ILYT is simply a reply of equal feeling. A common chain is “ilysm” followed by “ilyt”.
Is it romantic?
Not necessarily. Friends, siblings and parents use “love you” with each other all the time. If you are unsure of the relationship, assume affection, not romance, until there is more context.
Is it okay to reply ILYT if I am not sure?
Only send it if you mean it. A different, honest answer such as “thank you, that means a lot” is kinder than a reflex ILYT that you do not feel.
Related slang
- ILYShorthand for “I love you,” sent between partners, friends and family, often as a quick, warm sign-off.
- ILYSMILYSM means “I love you so much”: a warm, stronger version of ILY for friends, family or partners.
- IMYA shortened “I miss you,” sent to someone you haven't seen or talked to in a while, usually with real warmth.
- baeBae is an affectionate nickname for a partner, crush or someone you care about a lot.
- BFFBFF means “best friend forever”: your closest friend, though it is sometimes used sarcastically too.
- bestieBestie means best friend, and it is also a casual, friendly way to address someone online.
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